People all around always want to know where you stand, to know who you are. Many people find this easy but some don't. If you're one of the latter, then that's ok. You don't have to be sure of what you are at this moment or in the near future. As long as no one is hurt (including yourself) in your journey on self-discovery, then everything is ok. For those that have finally figured out who they are, you don't have to proclaim to the world who you are.
No one has ever told me this before and I've ended up hurting myself and I hope this doesn't happen to you. Love yourself even if others don't ((: